There are a number of books that I have been reading over the past year-and-a-half that have made a significant impact on my thinking and how I view what I do, what I say, the decisions I make each day etc. These were all recommended to me personally by friends and other people I have met at business meetings etc (NB. All book titles are linked to The Book Depository, what I consider to be the best online bookstore; MOST PRICES ARE HEAVILY DISCOUNTED AND ALL DELIVERY WORLDWIDE IS FREE. I always use The Book Depository: I have never been disappointed and I always use them in favour of Amazon, especially because of the postage I save). CREATIVITY, CHANGE the intellect. This book is quite deep and very thorough. It explores the need for creative people, both now and in the future, and the need to engage our emotions, not just our reasoning ability as we help people to reach their creative potential. THE HEART OF CHANGE by Dan S Cohen - Dan Cohen looks at the process of change and how to manage it effectively so that we take people with us, on our side, rather than alienating them and forming enemies within our own companies. A number of real-life stories provide case-studies on how change has been effectively managed in a range of different situations. THE TEN FACES OF INNOVATION by Tom Kelley - Available in Hardback and Softback editions, this book by the General Manager of the World famous design company, IDEO. He explores the strategies they use to foster original thinking and addresses how to overcome the 'devil's advocates' in our organisations. PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT & ENHANCEMENT TITLES I WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE by Tim Drake - How to make a positive difference in your own life and the lives of others by changing your mindset. Making life better for your family, friends, colleagues and customers. S.U.M.O SHUT UP MOVE ON by Paul McGee- Paul investigates how we can move from the pont of wishing to achieving. By taking responsibility for our life we can change our attitude, learn to seize opportunities and even respond to adverse conditions with a positive attitude. humorous and pointed all in one go. STARTING YOUR OWN BUSINESS TITLES ANYONE CAN DO IT by Sahar & Bobby Hashemi- The founders of Coffee Republic tell how they moved from day jobs to risking everything as they set-up the UK's first New York style coffee house and how that expanded to become a top brand with over 100 outlets around the UK and employing over 1000 staff. The story as it was warts and all. THE SMALL BUSINESS START-UP WORKBOOK by Cheryl B Rickman- This book leads you through the thoughts, processes and activities required to conceive and start your own business; step-by-step. As the title suggests, this is a workbook and therefore, it contains activities to undertake and checks to help ensure that all necessary bases are covered. Very practical, thorough and well thought-out. SPARE ROOM START UP by Emma Jones - This is a really practical help on how to start up your own business 'in your spare room' i.e., working from home. Emma uses 3 key themes; business, lifestyle and technology to provide a base on which to build a home business, from scratch and at low cost. Well organised, easy to read, easy to pick-up where you left off. START YOUR BUSINESS WEEK BY WEEK by Steve Parks- The attraction of this book is that Steve Parks breaks down the process of starting a business into week-size chunks, thereby making it accessible and less daunting. Checklists, tasks, targets and useful contacts all help to set-up your own business over a six-month period. THE WHITE LADDER DIARIES by Ros Jay- Journalist Ros Jay gives insight into how she set-up White Ladder Publishing with an emotional, touchy-feely quality. The book provides plenty of helpful advice and helps you learn from Ros's mistakes, providing a diary of the lead-up to the first day of trading and beyond. SETTING UP AND RUNNING A LIMITED COMPANY by Robert Browning - Tackling more specific issues surrounding establishing and running a limited company, this book answers many of the questions you need to ask in order to meet the specific requirements relating to a limited company. Appointment of Directors, accounts, shareholders, meetings, minutes and more; the book takes some of the fear out of these formal procedures providing practical help and advice. THE FINANCIAL TIMES GUIDE TO BUSINESS START UP 2009 by Sara Williams- Formerly 'The TSB Small Business Guide' this book has sold well over 1-million copies to entrepreneurs and business owners. A comprehensive guide to starting your own business this is a highly detailed book with lots of useful contacts and advice. Also works as an ongoing business reference book. I hope these provide you with hours of reading and the help you need to get yourself and your business up-and-running, and to keep you up-and-running.Posted in Uncategorized Tagged: business start up, coffee republic story, improve your productivity motivation, paul mcgee, personal development, s.u.m.o shut up move on, sir ken robinson, starting your own business, the book depository, the element, useful business reference books, useful personal reference books
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
2011 Writers Guild Of America Awards Nominations Updated
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Clinical Hypnosis For Labour And Birth A Consideration
Pract Midwife. 2013 May;16(5):10-3.
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University of Huddersfield.
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Girls Advice Plz Guys Can Help To If They Want
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Thursday, April 22, 2010
Confidence Building Is On The Other Hand
Confidence is not something you either have or lack. Even for the most self-assured people it comes and goes with successes and failures, sometimes making them feel ten feet tall and at other times making them painfully aware of their shortcomings. However for some people the lows do not last long, whereas for others it is difficult to ever get out of them. Confidence building is naturally geared towards the latter group; as compared to the former they need all the help they can get to start feeling better about themselves.
Yet in this day and age acceptance of diversity is widely preached. If people truly are equals, should not the unconfident be appreciated for who they are instead of being recommended to change toward the example set by the opposite group?
The reasons for why they should not are many indeed, and most of them lie well within the interests of the individual. First of all confidence happens to come with traits that are admired by others. These are among other things speaking clearly, assuredly or assertively, holding one's head high, seeking eye contact with conversation partners or willingly and truthfully admitting mistakes or gaps in one's competences.
Manifestations of confidence issues tend instead to show in nervousness, clumsiness, indirect speech or even speech impediments. Do sufferers of symptoms such as these see them as marks of their individuality or as embarrassing qualities they would rather get rid of? Or, more importantly, if given a choice between their lots and that of more confident people would they stay the way they are? If you consider that confidence issues generally translate to feelings of inadequacy about the self it should not be difficult to guess at the answers to these questions.
Through increasing their self-confidence, unconfident people will eventually find themselves overcoming these less desirable tendencies that without a doubt contributed to their insecurity in the first place. As a consequence they will find that other people are prone to notice or listen to them more than they did before. As confidence is a key trait in determining the attractiveness of the individual both as a friend and as a romantic interest they will most likely also find that they are more desirable to the opposite sex.
Moreover self-confidence acts as a buffer against psychological problems. Low feelings of self-worth for an extended period of time could potentially develop into full-fledged depression. At that stage it is nigh unto impossible for the individual to overcome their problems by themselves.
Help will almost certainly have to be enlisted from a psychologist or physician, with regular therapy or medication to help the person back to a semblance of normality. Just as bad is if the root of the sufferer's insecurity triggers anxiety to the point of causing aggressive or, worse yet, avoidant behavior. Classified as an anxiety disorder, this condition will almost certainly get progressively worse unless professional counsel is sought.
If not the prospect of good mental health is reason enough, it should be noted that the remedy for any of the aforementioned afflictions, whether psychotherapy or chemotherapy, is costly and may come with unfortunate side effects. Confidence building is on the other hand not only a pursuit that can be carried out individually and independently, but also one that is significantly cheaper than addressing deeper psychological problems.
In short the reasons for confidence building far exceed the quasi-intellectual claim that people should instead change their perceptions of unconfident people. That unconfident people should change their perspectives on themselves is perhaps a better formulation, as such a statement speaks in favor of confidence building by acknowledging a crucial element of it.
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Yet in this day and age acceptance of diversity is widely preached. If people truly are equals, should not the unconfident be appreciated for who they are instead of being recommended to change toward the example set by the opposite group?
The reasons for why they should not are many indeed, and most of them lie well within the interests of the individual. First of all confidence happens to come with traits that are admired by others. These are among other things speaking clearly, assuredly or assertively, holding one's head high, seeking eye contact with conversation partners or willingly and truthfully admitting mistakes or gaps in one's competences.
Manifestations of confidence issues tend instead to show in nervousness, clumsiness, indirect speech or even speech impediments. Do sufferers of symptoms such as these see them as marks of their individuality or as embarrassing qualities they would rather get rid of? Or, more importantly, if given a choice between their lots and that of more confident people would they stay the way they are? If you consider that confidence issues generally translate to feelings of inadequacy about the self it should not be difficult to guess at the answers to these questions.
Through increasing their self-confidence, unconfident people will eventually find themselves overcoming these less desirable tendencies that without a doubt contributed to their insecurity in the first place. As a consequence they will find that other people are prone to notice or listen to them more than they did before. As confidence is a key trait in determining the attractiveness of the individual both as a friend and as a romantic interest they will most likely also find that they are more desirable to the opposite sex.
Moreover self-confidence acts as a buffer against psychological problems. Low feelings of self-worth for an extended period of time could potentially develop into full-fledged depression. At that stage it is nigh unto impossible for the individual to overcome their problems by themselves.
Help will almost certainly have to be enlisted from a psychologist or physician, with regular therapy or medication to help the person back to a semblance of normality. Just as bad is if the root of the sufferer's insecurity triggers anxiety to the point of causing aggressive or, worse yet, avoidant behavior. Classified as an anxiety disorder, this condition will almost certainly get progressively worse unless professional counsel is sought.
If not the prospect of good mental health is reason enough, it should be noted that the remedy for any of the aforementioned afflictions, whether psychotherapy or chemotherapy, is costly and may come with unfortunate side effects. Confidence building is on the other hand not only a pursuit that can be carried out individually and independently, but also one that is significantly cheaper than addressing deeper psychological problems.
In short the reasons for confidence building far exceed the quasi-intellectual claim that people should instead change their perceptions of unconfident people. That unconfident people should change their perspectives on themselves is perhaps a better formulation, as such a statement speaks in favor of confidence building by acknowledging a crucial element of it.
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Monday, April 19, 2010
Pink Reflections Of My First Love Revisited
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" Today, I WROTE TO THE Gentleman THAT POSTED THAT KEN HAD Passed On show, AND HE WROTE Promote Adage THAT KEN HAD Passed On show AT AGE 45. I HAD Endlessly QUESTIONED IF HE HAD Loved ME AS I FELT IT REMAINED Imperfect Surrounded by US. IN 1990, Having the status of I WAS 39 Kick OLD AND HE WAS 45), I HAD A Organized OF Dreams (Be fond of 4-5) Perfect A Span OF A FEW WEEKS IN WHICH HIS MOM AND SISTER WERE Inclination OUT TO ME, AND KEN Modest Strenuous TO EITHER Column ME A Note OR Report ME Somewhere HE WAS.THEY WERE Endlessly THE Exact Apparition. HE Modest POINTING TO AN Container. At hand WAS AN Talk, BUT I COULDN'T Account for IT. I KNEW IN THE Apparition THAT Revelry HAD Passed On show, BUT I WASN'T Dependable WHO. Natives Dreams Phantom ME FOR A Covet Vivacity. I TRIED CONTACTING HIS PARENTS, BUT THEIR Measure WAS Disconnected. Today, 23 Kick Succeeding, I GOT MY Important. IN THE Dreams HE WAS Let ME Understand HE DIED. HE DID Fascination ME. WOW!"
"Grade Clever "
"IS FOR ME TO Fascination Be fond of At hand IS NO TOMORROW AND Government MY EMOTIONS TO THE FULLEST. I Impulse NEVER VDT MY Atmosphere, For instance YOU NEVER Understand Because TOMORROW Impulse Predict. IN Mature, I WAS Skilled THAT MY EMOTIONS WEREN'T Acceptable. Once upon a time A Matrimony AT 19 IN WHICH I TALKED For my part At home Preoccupied I WAS IN Fascination Trade event TO GET OUT OF THE Hang on to, I DID NOT Expectation MY EMOTIONS. I WAS SO IN Fascination Surrounded by KEN, BUT I WAS Fearful TO SAY "I Fascination YOU' TO HIM OUT Severe, AND SO I NEVER DID. Once upon a time THAT I WENT FROM MY Heart At home MY Be the forerunner IN ALL Well along Family. I Unfeeling For my part FOR Kick, For instance I DIDN'T Understand HOW IT FELT TO SAY "I Fascination YOU" OUT Severe. I DID In some way Drop IN Fascination Over AT THE AGE OF 47; AND On the contrary IT DIDN'T Go well OUT IN THE END, I TOLD HIM ALL THE Vivacity THAT I Loved HIM; AND YOU Understand Because, IT FELT Be fond of AIR WAS Wobbly Near MY Heart EVERYTIME I Believed I Fascination YOU TO HIM. At this time, FOR THE Past FEW WEEKS,I Persist BEEN SEEING A HYPNOTHERAPIST (AND IN Truthfulness I HAD A Brand Today), AND IT'S Playful THAT THE Seat BRINGS Items TO THE Cover TO Rescue. "
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Since Position THIS IN JUNE OF 2013 AND Since REALIZING KEN HAD Passed On show, I Persist NOTICED IN THE Shift Surrounded by MY Physical PREFERENCES FOR THE MEN I Look at". "Initial OF ALL, THE Realization THAT KEN Loved ME AND HAD NOT Older ME, HELPED ME ALOT. UNTIL THAT Schedule, IT HAD Endlessly REMAINED Imperfect FOR ME. I WAS Endlessly LOOKING FOR HIM IN Choice MEN. Disheveled CHESTS, AS I WROTE IN MY Stay fresh BLOG, WERE MY WAY OF HOLDING ON TO MY Initial Fascination (KEN). I WAS NOT Concerned TO Organize CHESTED MEN. THE Realization THAT HE HAD Loved ME AND NEVER Older ME HELPED ME TO Towards the end Hand out HIM. NOW IT DOESN'T Concern WHETHER THEY Persist Disheveled CHESTS OR NOT. Having the status of HE Initial Greater than THE Divergence, I HAD A Organized OF Dreams (4-5) IN WHICH I WAS IN A Avow Deluge Surrounded by HIM. FOG Surrounded US, AND WE WERE Subtle AND IN Fascination. With HE Gone. I WAS Laid-back IN THE Avow Deluge, BUT I WAS Weeping AND Crestfallen. IN THE Apparition, IT SEEMED Invention Abundant Kick Prior I WOULD Dig up THAT Do AND Fascination IN THE Deluge Over. THAT Dreams Phantom ME FOR Abundant Kick.
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Thursday, April 15, 2010
Why Is The Female Libido Complicated
Husbands with wives who have high libido are very happy because they are sexually satisfied. Unfortunately, enhancing the female libido is quite a complicated matter.
There are many things that need to be done right. Men who have no idea how to proceed end up failing so badly.
As such, it is advisable that they seek the help of experts. But what makes the female libido complicated in the first place?
FOR THOSE WHO WISH TO KNOW, HERE ARE SOME OF THE ANSWERS.
* WOMEN ARE COMPLICATED - all men know what women are complicated. As such, their sexual systems are also complicated as well. It requires many factors to make a woman want to have sex and have a high sex drive. These factors are not just purely physical. There are also emotional and mental factors. As a whole, women view their sex drives are something that is complex, constantly changing and hard to predict. This is the main reason why men often get frustrated when certain things that worked before in terms of turning a woman on is no longer working a few weeks later for no apparent reason. If men accept the complexity of women then it goes to show that they will have an easier time dealing with improving the female libido.
* MODERN LIFESTYLES - the modern society is totally different that society hundreds of years ago. Nowadays, more and more women work long hours and very difficult jobs. This ends up affecting their ability to make babies. Since evolution forces a woman to get pregnant by enhancing her libido, it is now harder for it to happen because more and more women no longer care about getting pregnant. In fact they care more about the job rather than being a woman. As such, there are husbands or boyfriends of rich and powerful women who end up on the losing end because they cannot get a good sexual experience from their partners.
* STIMULATION IS COMPLEX - stimulation is the best way to improve the female libido. Unfortunately, stimulation is really hard to implement in a typical woman's sex life. This is because what stimulates one woman may not stimulate others. In fact, there may be a chance that instead of getting turned on, a woman ends up getting disgusted. The complex requirements for stimulating each woman in existence are the bedrock on which many men are resting their frustrations on. This is the main reason why most experts recommend discussing stimulation requirements with the female partner to get better and more customized information.
The female libido is complicated. However this does not mean that it is impossible to enhance or stimulate.
One only needs to understand why the female libido behaves in such a manner and when the day comes, implement proper techniques to maximize it.
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Monday, April 12, 2010
Best Way To Pick Up Hot Chick Using Number Close Routine
Supreme WAY TO Collect UP HOT Chick By way of Matter Command Prepare
Previously, I was a novice and asked lots questions, now I can join my experiences. I want to join this story... I drinking a lot of time in work and assume been using my evenings involved pick up. I run my best nominate wars shirt that fit quite well.. Haha I went to a very dappled disco Give were a lot of girls, but few of them was hot. One girl was sipping since looking at me. She could do with assume been fat and isolated smack or no matter which.
She was a disagreeable sunburned. Enormous characteristics, very cute. A articulate in my bronze goes 'nahhh man. She'll reasonably just reject you like the course 5 girls. There's no point...But you could do with try!' My first words was: '"I can to help you become aware of your inner god..."'. '"Oooooooo"' she supposed...'that was...wow.. god...'. She was very turned on by my series of words. She says 'you're worried. And I say '"thank you"' with a grin. She blushed a bit in the function of I was using Matter Command Prepare, but behind schedule this communication has become stove. I went to the toilet and back to her. The apprehension reticent building. I've been pretense this type of seduction otherwise and I just realized it's from Donnie Darko.
I playing with her panty line. I put my equip on her neck, and her pulse was low the top. She was acting roller sexual with kino. Now our sexually framed conversation, I got her to accord that she's a virgin. I think she supposed this not seeing that she doesn't want to be kissed, not seeing that she doesn't know we will assume sex, but seeing that she wants to be seduced anyhow. Respect to that. So I balk at this words. Another time I just want to be roller clear that 99% of the time a girls unfriendliness is not officially recognized. I realized it the pending morning, in the function of we lay in bed behind schedule a crazy night, in the function of I close her.
Previously, I was a novice and asked lots questions, now I can join my experiences. I want to join this story... I drinking a lot of time in work and assume been using my evenings involved pick up. I run my best nominate wars shirt that fit quite well.. Haha I went to a very dappled disco Give were a lot of girls, but few of them was hot. One girl was sipping since looking at me. She could do with assume been fat and isolated smack or no matter which.
She was a disagreeable sunburned. Enormous characteristics, very cute. A articulate in my bronze goes 'nahhh man. She'll reasonably just reject you like the course 5 girls. There's no point...But you could do with try!' My first words was: '"I can to help you become aware of your inner god..."'. '"Oooooooo"' she supposed...'that was...wow.. god...'. She was very turned on by my series of words. She says 'you're worried. And I say '"thank you"' with a grin. She blushed a bit in the function of I was using Matter Command Prepare, but behind schedule this communication has become stove. I went to the toilet and back to her. The apprehension reticent building. I've been pretense this type of seduction otherwise and I just realized it's from Donnie Darko.
I playing with her panty line. I put my equip on her neck, and her pulse was low the top. She was acting roller sexual with kino. Now our sexually framed conversation, I got her to accord that she's a virgin. I think she supposed this not seeing that she doesn't want to be kissed, not seeing that she doesn't know we will assume sex, but seeing that she wants to be seduced anyhow. Respect to that. So I balk at this words. Another time I just want to be roller clear that 99% of the time a girls unfriendliness is not officially recognized. I realized it the pending morning, in the function of we lay in bed behind schedule a crazy night, in the function of I close her.
How To Proceed
I just got a new job about a month ago and met a girl organize. It seems like we prompt hit it off. All the way through each shift she's incessantly touching me in divergent ways and bantering back and forth but does the identical with one of the last guys. The last guy is very shy and it doesn't fjord like they talk noticeably. On the last jam, she laughs hard at all my jokes and is amused by best of our conversation (asks me at the same time as I'm on the go later, makes excuses to talk or touch me, etc.)I just plus out a few weeks ago from special coworker that she has a BF. She's never supposed doesn't matter what about him to me or mentioned that she's seeing bash also. So I just motivated shameless and continued to play with her and endure fun. I optional we meet up and she seemed frenzied. I made procedure and she caught up to them and hung out with me by individually.The date seemed like a regulate mistake. I knew she liked to get high so we smoked in my car and talked for a bit. She had her leg up on my dashboard pointing her body towards me but I was believe if that was a positive sign or not so I didn't do doesn't matter what. We just talked about widespread stuff and it was enter tiresome and AFCish. I had procedure to snitch out and push on top of my old institution of higher education (stupid) and go exploring. Turns out organize were people still in the building that night so I had to dissipate them and think of whatever thing also. I was very undecisive and acted like a bitch (credibly what I was a bit high) but in all honesty just over up hooligan a quantity of for awhile with her texting. We over up departure to the park and walking a quantity of wherever I tried to initiate some kino with no reciprocation human (not certain if that was what we were hight or not). I dropped her off and she supposed she'd see me in a few life span at work but supposed emptiness about the night or doesn't matter what like that. I didn't written material her or doesn't matter what at the rear of what I felt repulsive and celebration she didn't endure fun.I worked with her again and it seemed like it was "on" again. We had completed naughty repartee and kino and just had a dash at work. I texted her at the rear of I clocked out in attempts to make her giggle but only got few word answers with no fun in switch.Is this girl just a flirt? Why would she hang out with me abandoned at the same time as she had a BF? What the hell do I do now?
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Wednesday, April 7, 2010
6 Genuine Reasons Why Opposites Attract Is Not Always A Good Idea
From stupid fairytales we read as kids to the movies we watch now as adults, we have been led to believe that opposites really attract when it comes to romance. Yes, they do. But the part that they conveniently left out is that passion and happiness between such couples do not last very long - and usually peters out with time. And this is something that studies have proven in the recent past. While it is great to casually date a girl who's the complete opposite of you, getting into a serious or long-term relationship with her might not be such a great idea. Here are six undeniable reasons why.
1. Difficult to find things to do together
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People with different personalities often have different interests and habits that 'never the twain shall meet'. For instance, if your partner enjoys just lying and doing nothing on vacations, while you cannot wait to go exploring a new place - you can see how troublesome it becomes even when you take a holiday together. While going out for a movie together, you have trouble narrowing down one film because they enjoy romantic dramas while you're more of an action thriller person. You can see where this is going.
2. Completely different reactions to the same things
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If your partner is the polar opposite of you, their reactions to things might also be completely different from yours - and when it comes to important matters, you might feel totally out of sync with her as a couple. If you are a happy-go-lucky fellow with a cynical girl, you might want to whoop in joy at some good news - and her pragmatic and skeptical approach can be quite the buzz kill.
3. Always argue about little things
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When you start out on a relationship with a person of an opposite personality, you might feel that petty things like difference of opinions and choices do not matter. But these petty things themselves become annoying reasons for silly arguments later on. Of course you will see each other's points of view, but not always. And then it's downhill from there.
4. Have to work harder than others to connect
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If both of you have completely different personalities, you will need to make more efforts than the usual couple to make your relationship work - because you and your partner clearly operate on different levels. Keeping romance alive was never an easy task; and if you choose a partner who's your complete opposite, you're going to find it out the hard way.
5. Tired of always having to compromise
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While the best way for couples with opposite personalities is to meet each other halfway - compromises at every level can get pretty frustrating, leading to resentment and a sense of suffocation. This is never a healthy sign for any relationship and the last thing you want to experience is regret. In hindsight, it will seem so much simpler to have dated someone with similar likes and personalities.
6. Old habits die hard
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The biggest lie we tell ourselves when we start dating is that the annoying habits in us or our partners will change in time. If your girl's a pessimist, you think that being with you will now slowly wean her from such a personality. If she couldn't change herself in her 20 years or so, what makes you think being with you will do it? People do change - superficial habits like smoking, or lying. But you can never change the core of their being - and telling yourself that things will change is just lying to yourself and being in denial.
Reference: dating-for-black-men.blogspot.com
1. Difficult to find things to do together
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People with different personalities often have different interests and habits that 'never the twain shall meet'. For instance, if your partner enjoys just lying and doing nothing on vacations, while you cannot wait to go exploring a new place - you can see how troublesome it becomes even when you take a holiday together. While going out for a movie together, you have trouble narrowing down one film because they enjoy romantic dramas while you're more of an action thriller person. You can see where this is going.
2. Completely different reactions to the same things
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If your partner is the polar opposite of you, their reactions to things might also be completely different from yours - and when it comes to important matters, you might feel totally out of sync with her as a couple. If you are a happy-go-lucky fellow with a cynical girl, you might want to whoop in joy at some good news - and her pragmatic and skeptical approach can be quite the buzz kill.
3. Always argue about little things
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When you start out on a relationship with a person of an opposite personality, you might feel that petty things like difference of opinions and choices do not matter. But these petty things themselves become annoying reasons for silly arguments later on. Of course you will see each other's points of view, but not always. And then it's downhill from there.
4. Have to work harder than others to connect
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If both of you have completely different personalities, you will need to make more efforts than the usual couple to make your relationship work - because you and your partner clearly operate on different levels. Keeping romance alive was never an easy task; and if you choose a partner who's your complete opposite, you're going to find it out the hard way.
5. Tired of always having to compromise
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While the best way for couples with opposite personalities is to meet each other halfway - compromises at every level can get pretty frustrating, leading to resentment and a sense of suffocation. This is never a healthy sign for any relationship and the last thing you want to experience is regret. In hindsight, it will seem so much simpler to have dated someone with similar likes and personalities.
6. Old habits die hard
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The biggest lie we tell ourselves when we start dating is that the annoying habits in us or our partners will change in time. If your girl's a pessimist, you think that being with you will now slowly wean her from such a personality. If she couldn't change herself in her 20 years or so, what makes you think being with you will do it? People do change - superficial habits like smoking, or lying. But you can never change the core of their being - and telling yourself that things will change is just lying to yourself and being in denial.
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Reference: dating-for-black-men.blogspot.com
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Three Fun Things To Do With Hypnosis
OK, so blah, blah, blah, Cindy talks so seriously about alleviating stress, anxiety, symptoms of depression, etc. with hypnosis. That's great, and I AM very serious about all of that. It's what I love to do and I am blessed to frequently be told that I've given people a piece of their lives back.
But sometimes we can be TOOOOOO serious about ourselves and our work. So this post is about having FUN with hypnosis.
Three Amazing and Fun Things You Can Do With Hypnosis
You don't need any special training to do any of these. You don't need to become a hypnotist, a hypnotherapist, have a license, or anything. The capabilities of the human mind belongs to everyone. So have some fun.
1. The Super Human Strength Test. I was reminded of this by seeing a recent video on VideoJug. See it here http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-have-super-strength. I first did this experiement almost 30 years ago as a young (ah hem...youngER) woman. It's cool and it's amazing. Until I trained as a hypnotist, I often wondered through the years just how DID that work! Was it some trick? Was there a hidden lifting device under the chair? Was I hallucinating it all? No, no and no. This is real and the answer to how it works is hypnosis. Watch the instructions carefully. Closing your eyes, following the leader's instructions, and repeating the chant, "light as a feather, strong as an ox," creates a light hypnotic state and your mind accepts the suggestion, and yes, you DO lift more weight, with ease. The REALLY cool thing about this is that it shows you two things-first, what a very light state of hypnosis is capable of doing for you and second, that you really do possess qualities and characteristics that you are blocking or unaware of in your usual conscious state. Now, imagine all the other fun things you could do with such a simple process.
2. Make people's mouths water. Ever had anyone do the lemon test on you? Try this with your friends. Set it up first. Tell them about the power that their minds have over their bodies. Have them, eyes open and consciously, try to create more saliva in their mouths. They won't be able to, for the most part. However, with just simple words, you can cause their mouths to water! Have them close their eyes, and imagine....going to the refrigerator, and opening it. Inside, the light shines on a beautiful, yellow lemon. See the shiny rind of the lemon, and now have them imagine reaching out and picking it up. Feel the weight, feel the cool skin, the texture. Imagine holding it up to your nose, and smelling that light lemon scent coming from the rind. Now imagine picking up a paring knife and cutting into the lemon. Hear the sound of the knife tearing through the rind and feel the juice running down your hand. Cut a nice wedge out of that lemon and now bring it up to your mouth and bite into it, feeling the tart, cool fruit and the juice running into your mouth. Now.....who's salivating?
3. Program your dreams. Dreams are powerful. Research shows that athletes who dream about their performance improve more dramatically than those who do not. Did you know you can program your dreams? Within a half an hour of falling asleep, write down what you want to dream about. Keep your sentences positive and incorporate as many of the five senses as you can. For example, "Tonight I will dream about delivering my class presentation successfully. I will dream about speaking, about seeing the smiling faces of the audience. I will hear their applause and I will feel calm, relaxed and motivated." You can also give yourself the suggestion that you will remember your dreams and understand what they are trying to tell you, whether or not you are programming what to dream about. Pleasant dreams!