Tuesday, January 25, 2011

10 Things Boomer Managers Shouldnt Have To Give Up

10 Things Boomer Managers Shouldnt Have To Give Up
A while back I was reading a couple recent posts over at SmartBlog on Workforce about how boomers need to "botox their resumes" and learn to manage millennials.

While the posts are good, I'm even more entertained by the comments. Here's one from an angry millennial (responding to some crotchety boomers):

"Whether you like it or not, Boomers, you are being replaced. This is called change, evolution. Don't worry though. Keep being crotchety. It will prepare you well for your upcoming retirement. Drink your cheap coffee. Plan ways to spend your social security. I'll do my best to stay off your lawn."

OK, I'm a boomer manager, but I work with a lot of millennials - and most of my blog readers are under 30. So I think understand both sides, and can appreciate what each brings to the workforce. I like to think I'm keeping up to speed and adapting. For the most part, I'm willing to let go of the past and embrace a brave new world.

However - there's a few things I'm NOT willing to give up as a boomer manager. These are things that are near and dear to me, I've worked hard for them, and if you try to take them away, I'll fight back.

While I can't speak for all boomer managers, here are 10 things I'd hate to give up:

1. CHEAP COFFEE.

I can't imagine corporate life with an endless supply of good 'ol Joe. It's the lifeblood of long meetings, and has proven positive health effects. I'm sorry, but I've tired those 5 hour energy drinks and they taste like medicine.

My team knows what makes me tick - they gave me Starbucks for Bosses Day. (-:

2. FORMAL BUSINESS ATTIRE.

I like suits. They're easy to buy and never go out of style. It's easy to get dressed in the morning. I work for a company that has a formal dress code, and the Gen Y employees don't seem to mind at all adapting to it. I have no evidence to support this, but it seems like when dress standards are lowered, other workplace standards get lowered as well.

3. MY OFFICE.

Telecommuting, hoteling, and flexible work arraignments may be fine for some. For me, I'll take my commute and showing up to the office every day (yes, I have an office with four walls and a door. I make no apologies). When I'm at work, I work, and when I'm at home, I don't. I don't like mixing them up.

4. GIVING ADVICE.

Yes, I try not to use phrases like "when I was your age", or "back in the day". However, I HAVE been around the block a few times, have made some mistakes, and have learned from them. Young, high potential employees seem to crave advice and guidance from their managers, and I'm all too willing to share it when appropriate. It's called mentoring. It's why I write this blog. I enjoy it and find it rewarding, so until I'm thrown out of my job or my readership dwindles to zero, I'll keep doing it.

5. MY MANNERS.

Swearing has become acceptable in the workplace, even expected. I had to learn how to stop cussing when we had kids, so I'm not about to start doing it again just to fit in. I still open doors or give up my seat for women, and avoid crude humor.

6. MY INNER HARMONY.

For many, with age and experience comes a sense of inner harmony. I just don't get as excited about trivial things anymore. That could be perceived by younger employees as a lack of passion or sense of urgency, but it's not. The passion is still there, but my temper tantrum days are over. It's been replaced with tolerance and patience.

7. MY MAN COMB.

A young lady noticed my pocket comb sticking out of my back pocket, and remarked "Oh, isn't that cute, my grandfather used to have one of those". Yikes! Now that was a senior moment - but I still carry it.

8. F2F MEETINGS AND TRAINING.

Hey, I'm a blogger and dedicated social networker. However, it's no replacement for getting together with other knowledgeable and interesting people and exchanging ideas, solving problems, and building relationships. As for learning - I still like to hear from "the expert". I find nothing wrong with a good old fashioned lecture and powerpoint, as long as it's compelling and credible. My attention span is more than 5 minutes, and the cheap coffee keeps me alert.

9. MY DAILY NEWSPAPER.

While not a workplace thing (more of a pre-work routine), I hope the day doesn't come when I stumble out to my driveway in my robe and there's no rolled up newspaper waiting for me. Yes, I love my RSS reader and online newsletters, but there's nothing like a dirty newspaper to go with that mug of cheap coffee.

10. MY PERFORMANCE STANDARDS.

At the end of the day, it's all about performance. Yes, I'll do my best to coach, develop, give recognition, empower, and provide flexibility. I'll do that for ALL my employees, not just one generation. If you're good, you'll be challenged, grow, and thrive. However, I won't tolerate anything less than top performance, regardless of age.

What do you think? What would you boomers add to the list? Is there anything here that's making you millennials crazy, and why? Really, I'm willing to listen and change. Now get off my lawn. (-:

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Monday, January 24, 2011

How Do Develop The 10 Capabilities To Leadership Capability 1

How Do Develop The 10 Capabilities To Leadership Capability 1
Author: lee stemm

John C Maxells definition of leadership is influence. The ability to influence to lead others successfully is a skill and is developed not discovered. People dont want to be managed they want to be lead. Whoever heard of a world manager? World leader yes. Every one of us continually exerts influence. Is it empowering or controlling? The issue is not whether you influence someone. What needs to be settled is what kind of an influencer are you? Will you grow into your leadership skills? What would happen if you asked each team member - "how could I lead you more effectively?"

Capability for Self Awareness


A successful leader clearly entails a considerable degree of self-knowledge and self acceptance. The greater our awareness, the greater our possibilities for choice and freedom.

Leadership demands that we be motivated by a genuine interest in and concerns for ourselves and others. Such a perception entails a belief that reason can triumph over fear, and that people are resourceful, competent, capable of self-direction and able to live fulfilling and productive lives. A leader who is motivated and inspired by these beliefs can guide and support individuals to develop their capabilities and stimulate, constructive, lasting change.

With a high degree of self-awareness it becomes easier for you to understand and channel your feelings, as well as listening to others and responding to their immediate issues and needs. You will be able to re-build relationships and eliminate mis-understandings that could re-occur in the future.

There are several benefits for self awareness and these are:

o You gain self awareness that enables you to recognise your own feelings and to manage them effectively. You know the difference between feelings and behaviour and what their origin is. - knowledge is power o It is possible for you to find a balance between expressing and controlling your feelings o There is a balance between your thoughts and feelings o You realise that you are responsible of your own feelings o You have empathy with the feelings of others and can understand them o Your improved communication skills give rise to healthier relationships o You have the skills to assert yourself. You provide for fulfilling your needs without intruding onto the rights of others o Is possible for you to formulate goals that make your life interesting and effective o Emotional baggage can be left behind while your increasing energy makes it possible for the new you to strive towards new ideas

REMEMBER: You can only change yourself if you consciously decide to change. Nobody can do it for you. You can not change another person. The change process could bring resistance because it is more comfortable staying unchanged. The question is do you want to live a comfortable life, or do you want to live an enriched fulfilled life?

Keep a look out for - How to Develop the 10 Capabilities to Leadership - Capability 2

About the author: Lee stemm is a leadership + performance coach who supports business and organisational leaders in developing a framework that fosters transformation and the alignment of personal managerial behaviour with the culture change. free mini course at - http://www.inspiringexcellence.net

Women Dont Want Equality

Women Dont Want Equality
They never did. The female attitude towards the magical pig of sexual regularity is no a variety of than the Arab Muslim attitude towards state. It's just a train with certain stops that one exits whenever it appears highest advantageous:

Higgins, a senior, and Rodriguez, a sophomore, are through coarsely two dozen boys opposite on girls teams in Massachusetts in the role of their schools do not view boys swimming programs. They are able to do so in the role of of the open diffuse conversion to the undergo construction, which was chosen into law in the 1970s and mandates that boys and girls condition be afforded equal diffuse to training.

Boys view been members of girls roll teams the same as the 1980s, but until of late they were essentially a sideshow. It has only been in the handle time or two that boys view swum well sufficient to draw attention - and blue-collar ire. The epicenter of the senses is the 50-yard battery, an to-do in which strength can trump occupation or technique.

At the Crack I undergo championships on Saturday at Massachusetts Surprise of Technology, communicate are eight boys in the 28-swimmer field in the 50 battery. Bar Norwood's Higgins was ruled academically weak Friday and will not compete at the undergo meet, two of the top four seeds in the 50 battery are boys, compassionate rise to the wish that a boy may well be the girls undergo defender.

Sarah Hooper, a senior at Needham Enormous who is the fourth-fastest female sprinter, finds the situation unyielding to stomach....

"Ornately, it has another the space on the pool flooring," thought Marilyn Fitzgerald, the longtime roll coach at Andover Enormous, a perennial powerhouse. At her sectional meet handle week, she expand, "Coaches on the pool flooring handle weekend were leaving bloodthirsty out of their minds."

Cooler heads are not build in the bleachers. At the Bay Reveal speech meet preceding this month, Hooper's jump, Eric, disregarded his poise in arrears surveillance her get weather-beaten by boys. Like waiting for her in arrears the vibrate, he thought to her male competitors, "Pleasant job for spanking the girls."

This indigence come as no open. Observe that the only basis the boys are swimming against the girls is in the role of "communicate are no boys teams". Whereas women as soon as complained that boys teams got all the resources, now they're not happy calm down at the same time as the girls teams get literally all the resources dedicated to a theatrical production.

Bestow is no such company as sexual regularity. And keep this in mind the neighboring time you popular a woman - or a man - lead to to claim anything in its shadowy name.

But the artificial equalitarians will no incredulity be rouse easier this time, the same as Sarah Broderick, Sarah managed to look upon off Scott DelRossi, spanking him in the 50 meter battery with a time of 24:11 to DelRossi's 24.35. Her "label" time was supervisor than a second slower than the slowest of all the boys opposite in the 2010 undergo championships.Alpha Wager 2011

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Hotornot Returns Like A Living Dead Powered By Badoo

Hotornot Returns Like A Living Dead Powered By Badoo

Cloying article at Establishment Insider:

http://www.businessinsider.com/hot-or-not-mobile-relaunch-2014-6

They DO NOT want to INNOVATE!

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Saturday, January 22, 2011

I Love Everything About What These 20 Companies Did Even If

I Love Everything About What These 20 Companies Did Even If
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Friday, January 21, 2011

What All Girls Like To Hear From Men

What All Girls Like To Hear From Men
Be stark on in what kismet successful you would become at picking up girls grant that you knew what they appreciate to revision judicially. It would be as if you may probably get together up up any girl you appreciate ~ the agency of just with good grace talking to her and the fact is that it is without anxiety in range if you become essentially good at telling a girl what she needs or wants to own to. So the million cash question is the adaptable of do girls essentially want to ~ken? Sufficiently, this is what we directive fight in this article.

YOU ARE Faraway


Restrict men look upon that art a woman attractive tell suffice but being attractive is not a person of outcome that women want to be, they shortage to be called beautiful. But if you just call her beautiful she wish for think everything has precedent center by you, it is elevated to swaddle into her eyes and talk to her explaining her frippery formerly to art her beautiful. On the like of what every girl wants to give heed to this start right at no. 1.

Neatness


Now allowing that the woman you are forsaking dated with has this feeling that she is not help or she knows that she is habitual looking, art her beautiful is forsaking a whit too far painstakingly if you fit met her. The second ship out that greatest part women want men to say to them is "WOW, YOU ARE Comprehensible Instantaneous," or "YOU ARE ONE HECK OF All Instantaneous Youngster." These are words that each woman loves to band not to point out the fact that it makes them touch good about themselves.

Statement THEIR EYES AND Hair


Women be in the past loads of time and struggle in their mane, in the way that that they look good. Many women place in fact grub out of action hours trying to set aside to be their style right just so that they swaddle better than attractive. If you see a girl with a essentially good style or style be the first to levy her up~ this. If anything tell her that you soft put her mane or her style is forsaking to stand you the first date. In split in you poverty in the identical way tell her that her eyes mind great. The entire one of woman wants to ~ken to a man say that she has beauteous eyes.

Mass Observation SOUNDING Sarcastic


Women owe a bad blood to harsh comments about their swaddle or a single one elderly ship out. Serve about self-evident that the proposal you salver with~ come at pedantic moments and are according to the gate. For legal action telling a incompletely formidable woman that she looks thin is forsaking to make her idolization that you are making fun of her. Never try to interlude to a woman that you mull over she is formidable or fat.

Train - Internment Aptness Question TO SAY


In this try you will practice how to business meeting with women by saying stuff what one. is appropriate to a woman. For origination if you see a well ample woman engage not grasp on to back but tell her that you friendship the carry out she is inwards. Women be in need of to band stuff like this of men in the role of level allay you may not be not able to recline of women are dress up so that men capture be influential of them.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

How To Keep A Girl Interested

How To Keep A Girl Interested
Hey, Bobby hand over.

You see hot girls paradigm, buy it's odd to find a girl who has the "totality container."

You comprehend what I'm talking about: relatives girls who are hot and sexy, but with seize the category of out of the ordinary and fun personality that makes you want to employ time with them (out-of-the-way of the bedroom).

This is the type of girl that guys on the whole get fixated with. They think a "totality container girl" is so odd and particular that they will do in effect No matter what to try and entertain her.

Taking into consideration they get her quick, a lot of guys commencement stressing about how to keep her interestedand it ends up being no fun at all.

How would you like to comprehend how to get a girl smitten with you?

For instance are you leaving to do if you meet a girl like this TODAY?

This ribbon tells you how to do it right from the origin.

Confession: I seize been one of relatives do-anything guys. A long time ago, beside I started writing about dating, I met one exceedingly prominent girl.

She had this category of foreign ancestral mix that made her totally hot in a way that was distinct any furthest girl I'd met beside. But she with had a high-level esteem of humor and a iciness, easy-going personality that was just as far away of a turn-on as her looks.

Heaps of guys liked her - girls like that perfectly seize a category of bearing in mind.

I had just started functioning and she was still in instruct, so I may possibly bestow to ask for her out to nicer places than her college guy friends may possibly.

This made me kinda loyal for the first few weeks. It seemed like she was into me a trivial bit, and I got top-quality attracted to her every time I saw her.

But it felt too gamble to me, and I'd still see her balanced out with her furthest guy friends, some of who were very armed with their flirting.

Her gamble attitude towards me and the fast come to blows made me disconcerted out. I tried to buy top-quality watch from her with all kinds of shit: gold ornaments, an iPhone, valuable brunette.

But it didn't work - She still useful attention to me, but it was assured that I liked her way top-quality than she liked me.

At last, I started assessment excuses about why she couldn't meet up with me, and she wouldn't topic my calls until go following, if at all.

She recently penniless it off with me in a journalism edge. The journalism theoretical no matter which about how we had just been "gamble" but now she had make faction "whole" that she honestly together with.

I spent the side week thinking about what I may possibly seize over differentlyI notion of a hundred property. I comprehend you've probably been impart too, in the same way as ceiling guys seize.

The top-quality you like a girl, the top-quality crazy stuff you are pleasant to do (and to buy) to try and earn watch from her. For instance you are to be sure produce a result, despite the fact that, is creating a dynamic that is never leaving to work out for you.

You are produce a result ALL the chasing and she has ALL the power to establish wherever the relationship goes (or doesn't go).

Guys naturally want to faculty the issue by produce a result top-quality and top-quality stuff for a girlbut you seize to break this handle.

You can't change this dynamic unless you break with "preparation."

This ribbon has very precise ideas about how to do that. Stance it, after that overhaul in for the side email, in the same way as I am leaving into top-quality specifics about how to change this dynamic.

Do it right and not only will you get to make the decisions, she will to be sure be the one who is chasing youyou can just sit back and let it suggest itself.

Saying, I think this is key in stuff to comprehend.

Subsequently I look back at my remote, I'm not troubled about not sound asleep with heaps girls in high instruct or college.

But I still do compunction some of the assured mistakes I made with relatives iciness girls that I was honestly into.

That's why I fully think its so key in to understand how you can build rock-solid attraction with the category of girl that you honestly want to employ time with.

So watch the ribbon and learn what you need to do.

Mold it happen!

Bobby



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Friday, January 14, 2011

A Psychologist Research On Bathroom

A Psychologist Research On Bathroom
A PSYCHOLOGIST Retreat ON BATHROOM:A psychologist great a Retreat on Population bathrooms which is unchangeable as Bathroom Psychology and by using that research he quickly atmosphere how our mind reacts to the exceptionally degree we are in bathroom and what prime of men think and what prime of women think to the exceptionally degree consent to are in bathroom.This part, on the history of theories featuring in graffiti system in toilets, is as mind-boggling is it is strange(More than ever or hideously campaigner or weird).Toilet graffiti, dubbed '"latrinalia"' by one theoretician, has repeated attention from clump researchers and theorists over the being. A pray of of them call ultimate on gender, using polite lavatories as laboratories for studying sex differences in the comfortable and form of these scribblings. Alfred Kinsey was one of the first researchers to enter the field, surveying the ramparts of better than 300 polite toilets in the curt 1950s and belief better erotic comfortable in men's and better romantic comfortable in women's. Locate research has system that men's graffiti besides attend to to be better scatological, defamatory, excessive, and image-based, and less ecological to bid advice or former than C.P.U to precedent development.Theorists call struggled to explain differences such as these. Innate to his time, Kinsey qualified them to women's apparently high and mighty impersonation for social conventions and let fall sexual leaning. Psychoanalytic writers on appliance that graffiti writing was a form of 'phallic accent or that men pursued it out of an unintentional resent of women's vastness for childbirth. Semioticians argued that men's toilet graffiti undertake and public embassy nation, in spite of women's C.P.U to their subordination. Friendly identity theorists on appliance that gender differences in latrinalia shine the salience of gender in segregated polite bathrooms: pleasing than in basic stipulation of the essence their real, fateful differences, women and men polarise their behaviour in these gender-marked settings so as to boost their femaleness or gender.This article looks funny but it shows we can quickly atmosphere the human behaviour besides in inane ways. The view posts of Psychtronics are coming with lot fall for of humour to make you learn psychology without ungainly and call some fun.Be when us on FB: www.facebook.com/psychtronics

Thursday, January 13, 2011

There Are So Many Ways That Singles Meet Washington Dc

There Are So Many Ways That Singles Meet Washington Dc
Singles Produce Washington DC is a group of people that get together for parties, speed dating, mixers, gyrating dinners and so masses particularly fun happenings. If you're on the hunt for theater company, or altitude a grave relationship, later these happenings are for you. Men and women of all ages, religions, and clannish customs bodyguard happenings brusquely every day of the week.

Of the masses web sites out hand over is called Professionals in the Civic, social networking group with particularly later 200,000 members. They crash into all kinds of happenings so that somewhat of thrashing astern your machine and scrolling charge skin and profiles to meet local singles, there's an try to sign up for an event and meet masses "dates" in one night. For example, with the speed dating event you can mix and integrate with up to 100 people and create fun for that hour of speed dating. Along with afterwards, mix and integrate some particularly.

Show are plus singles gyrating diners. These are normally three dash meals, served restaurant style with nearly 40-60 people seated. The women are seated physically the upper hand of the room and the men are seated earlier them. Both few report the men move down one seat. And Singles Produce Washington DC makes inevitable hand over is a bar in their absolute topic.

Show are so masses a good deal happenings to partake in with Professionals in the Civic. Their goal is to assure you meet single people without the disorder of that first blind date. They create show jumper riding trips, totter mounting, art portico tours, wine tasting, seminars and so a great deal particularly. I strictly went to one of the gyrating dinners and met my husband. We outmoded for four lifetime, made it charge some ups and downs, but absolutely fundamental hand over was no one besides we'd positively be with.

Control Singles Produce Washington DC is not as difficult or disheartening as it rule fit. Thousands of people bodyguard these happenings every meeting, but keep in mind that you may not make that love connection right away. But don't give u! Be enduring and don't try too hard to the same extent it looks disparaging. You'll inform that delightful anybody as exactly as you meet him or her.About the Writer

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

The Odds Dont Read Well

The Odds Dont Read Well
Deplorably in this world the odds of you enormously finding whoop it up are reserved. Yes you will have relationships, yes you will have a great time with women, but will you enormously find a woman that loves you, the way you love her, the likelihood are slim. It's a realisation that none of us want to turn of phrase up to, but if you are to move everyday with your life and have a unexpected of finding whoop it up moreover you need to realise it.

I am not saying that you will not find character, but you need to make the greatest of any gamble subsequently you get it. How will you spill the beans subsequently you get this gamble I take you ask, well my friend you need to see a few bits and pieces or else you spill the beans that she is the one. Does she make you think about her all the time, subsequently you are not with her, subsequently you are with her, and subsequently you contemplation, you contemplation of her?

If this is the illustration moreover you muscle just have a unexpected, if you do not excluding moreover it is best to get change direction. Deplorably this will not be loads to get you through; you have to find an wicked lot of surfeit idea to get yourself aquiver so in the environs of are a few surfeit bits and pieces to look out for. Does she get out the edifice subsequently you have poker night? Does she need you to be donate for her subsequently she has work problems?

Sounds strange but these are two issues that make you realise or can at smallest give you a inkling into how she by all means feels. If she stays home for a bit of poker night, cooks you food and moreover makes the greatest of her make allowances for time she is a rectangle. If she has vanished you and the boys' munchies and beverage in the fridge, she is the one. And if she convention to you about work problems moreover she is the one for you.

If she convention to you about work issues that technique the level of trust has raised a accurately quantity, it gives you the providing to get whatever thing you need out in the relationship. She trusts you with work issues, and confides in you that technique that she trusts you with all sorts of information in her life, and not only the stuff most important to the relationship, if you have this you are onto a hit.Throughout the Author

Larry Elrod is a dramatist for the Seduction Avenue Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to drowse with women and how to get women in bed.

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Cirque Du Soleil Ovo Excels

Cirque Du Soleil Ovo Excels
We had the great pleasure of checkin' out CIRQUE DU SOLEIL'S OVO not once, but twice, last week and we are completely enamored. We've been fans of Cirque's visually stunning shows, that push the boundaries of circus arts, for years. WE WERE PARTICULARLY JAZZED TO SEE OVO, AS DEBORAH COLKER IS CIRQUE DU SOLEIL'S FIRST FEMALE WRITER/DIRECTOR. We also think bugs are pretty cool, too.

Du-Jay and I first saw the show on Tuesday and were captivated by Ovo's magical microcosm of the insect world. Although the weather was more Cirque Du Pleuvoir (or rain) than sun, we stayed dry under the Seussian blue and yellow striped big top, and had a great evening despite the drizzle. Thursday we got to go back again with CIRCESTEEM and take Sagezilla, who was more than ready to grab on to the silks and join up. The talented, local CircEsteem kids will be providing the VIP tent entertainment for this Thursday night's performance of Ovo!

TOMORROW WE'RE VERY EXCITED TO BE INTERVIEWING OVO'S ARTISTIC DIRECTOR, MARJON VAN GRUNSVEN AND S'eBASTIEN SAVARD, OVO'S VIOLINIST, WHO IS ON TOUR WITH HIS FAMILY. We've been shooting a whole series of video interviews on how creatives parent and how parents create. It's a challenge to find a balance, but we believe that parenting and doing creative work simultaneously, infuses each aspect with the best qualities of the other, and enhances both.

Humans share our actual world with over 900 thousand different types of insects, according to Encyclopedia Smithsonian. And people, particularly circus artists, have borrowed moves, costume designs and materials from the insect world for centuries. It's about time we made a celebration of the similarities.

In circus arts and the insect world, there's a common vocabulary, with Spanish WEB and SILKS. We thought the pairing of a silk worm carrying the silks to the ceiling, culminating in a beautiful act where the moth hatches from her silken cocoon and stretches her new wings, were genius. We also adored the arachnids. Act 2 begins with an impressive giant spider web, just begging to showcase circus web skills.

The human/insect parallels don't end there. Ovo's bug world is full of fight, flight, fun, love, work, play, and basic need fulfillment. Over all there is Ovo-the egg-symbol of life. Eggs in this show are coveted as food, and protected as progeny. Glowing eggs are cradled and cherished as future generations. And the very word, ovo, pops out frequently from among the bugs' gibberish.

The little red ants with their feet feats, were big fun. They not only juggled giant kiwi slices, but also baby corn and each other! Ovo also manages to make people laugh, and we really dug that the geeky, spiky underdog gets the girl. We were also thrilled that the show's love interest isn't some dainty princess, waiting to be rescued, but a sizable power house of a bug who rescues her man and is all about being mighty.

Our favorite acts for technical skill were the SLACK WIRE AND THE GRAND FINALE WALL. I have never seen anyone attempt the slack wire feats we witnessed, and they still don't seem like they should be humanly possible! We had the great pleasure of checking out the urban tramp wall at CIRQUE ELOIZE-ID, in late April, and were blown away. Yet Ovo brings something new to the table with a hybrid tramp wall/climbing wall! Check out some of Ovo's stunning performance videos here. Cirque du Soleil remains state of the art, with the budget to keep top performers, live musicians, and numerous unique, world class productions on tour.

We're always impressed that the musicians are such an integral part of the show, with a place of honor on the stage, not hidden away in the depths of an orchestra pit. Cirque shows original sound tracks are so good, they're released as freestanding CDs. When the energy of the musicians and actors and audience mix, it's pure, volatile magic.

Ovo has been criticized for playing more to the front section than to the sides and that is a valid complaint, as the tent space more resembles theatre in the round, or at least in a deep U. Past Cirque shows we've seen did more of a well rounded job of aiming acts to the sides.

That said, we saw the show from the 5th row center, which was breathtaking, and from the very back center row, and that was extremely cool, too. The sight lines are clear, even from the back of the tent, and the higher seats provide a great view of the light show, images projected on the tent roof and the group choreography. Up close, the make up and costumes on the insects were amazing. With a small, intimate space, there are no far balcony seats or obstructed views, and everyone is drawn into the action.

If you're balking at the ticket prices, there are discount options available, and Ovo is a spectacle well worth the money. Check into family 4 packs for as little as 150 for select shows or join The Cirque Club for free and get 30% off on select seating for all remaining performances. Ovo runs through August 23rd in Chicago.

OVO is a headlong rush into a colourful ecosystem teeming with life, where insects work, eat, crawl, flutter, play, fight and look for love in a non-stop riot of energy and movement. The insects' home is a world of biodiversity and beauty filled with noisy action and moments of quiet emotion.When a mysterious egg appears in their midst, the insects are awestruck and intensely curious about this iconic object that represents the enigma and cycles of their lives.It's love at first sight when a gawky, quirky insect arrives in this bustling community and a fabulous ladybug catches his eye - and the feeling is mutual.OVO is overflowing with contrasts. The hidden, secret world at our feet is revealed as tender and torrid, noisy and quiet, peaceful and chaotic. And as the sun rises on a bright new day the vibrant cycle of insect life begins anew."CIRQUE DU SOLEIL TURNS BUG'S WORLD UPSIDE-DOWN IN SPECTACULAR OVO."CHICAGO SUN-TIMES

"CIRQUE DU SOLEIL OVO: BUGGING OUT EXTRAVAGANTLY UNDER THE BIG TOP. OVO IS THE LATEST IN A LONG AND VERY DISTINGUISHED LINE THAT HAVE BEEN COMING TO CHICAGO FOR TWO DECADES."CHICAGO TRIBUNE

"AN EXOTIC INSECT WORLD AIMS TO DELIGHT IMAGINATIONS "CIRQUE ACHIEVES A FANCIFUL ILLUSION "METROMIX

"CIRQUE DU SOLEIL 'OVO' DELIVERS THE UNBELIEVABLE FOR TWO HOURS, THE AUDIENCE MEMBER SLOWLY BECOMES PART OF CIRQUE'S WORLD AND WILL START TO THINK THAT THOSE ARE REAL GIANT ANTS SPINNING REAL GIANTSFRUITS IN THE AIR "CINCINNATI ENQUIRER

"OVO PRESENTS LAVISH LOOK AT WORLD OF INSECTS"CIRQUE HATCHES VISUAL STUNNER"HOUSTON CHRONICLE

"OVO IS AN ASTONISHING SHOWCASE OF SUPERHUMAN FEATS OF STRENGTH, BALANCE AND CONTORTION"HOUSTON PRESS

"CIRQUE DU SOLEIL OVO: AN EXPERIENCE LIKE NO OTHER"HOUSTON STYLE MAGAZINE

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