BY JANE KIRKPATRICK
"Another book I picked up from the Book Thing; my copy jacketless so I didn't really know what it was about until I started reading. From a map in the endpapers and the opening chapters I gathered it had to do with people settling in my home state when it was still just a territory and hoped for something rather like The Egg and I" in its descriptiveness. I was a bit disappointed in that the characters only reach the Puget Sound area at the very end, but still got some of the beautiful, rough landscape and early settlers' lives I was hoping for.
The main character here, Emma Giesy, is a member of a religious community formed of German immigrants. When the book opens Emma is a young woman chafing at the restraints of her culture. Women were pretty much expected to be subservient, seen and not heard, and instead she is outspoken, forward-thinking and rebellious. She falls in love with an older man and they get married against the wishes of the leader. Then she complains that her new husband gets sent off on recruiting missions without her, and manipulates her way into a scouting party bound west to find new land for their community to relocate. The bulk of the novel is about their travels and hardships. When then finally decide on a site on the banks of the Willapa River, things look pretty miserable. The land is harder to "tame" than they expected, it rains all winter, their crops don't grow well. But Emma finds herself falling in love with the beauty of the formidable land and begins to learn how to live there (small things that made all the difference, like natives showing her how to make wide hats of cedar bark that keep off the wet). When the main party finally arrives and their leader outright rejects the site- to the bitter disappointment of Emma's husband, she can't bring herself to give up on it yet.
There's so much going on here that throughout I was kept interested- Emma bears two children in the wilderness, and although she never looses her inquisitiveness her character does grow some. She learns some wisdom in when to keep her mouth shut, but also how to stand up to the men around her when it matters. I think my favorite part of the book was when she settled in a half-finished house all alone with her child for several weeks. Her husband also faces lots of challenges and although his character doesn't grow as much as Emma's, there is some development there. Most of the other characters were pretty flat for me, and near the end the story did start to drag. While it closed on a rather hopeful note, the ending felt a bit jumbled to me, a scramble to tie up all the loose ends and name where all the people went to as the community party dissolved. But overall I liked it. A good read.
It's based on real people and events.
RATING: 3/5......... 368 pages, 2006........ find it on Amazon or at Powell's Books
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It's another Saturday night, and I am anxiously checking Facebook every 10 seconds, I have my phone lying patiently on my pillow and my laptop volume is on full blast just in case the Skype video chat alert rings. I'm waiting for my boyfriend. He's going out late at night with his friends, and I have to get up at 5 a.m. to work out at the gym; our lives and schedules are completely different, and there are times when we do talk, we don't say more than 5 sentences to each other. Our love story is one of longing and "I miss yous," and we haven't been together even six months!
Let me start at the beginning. Zach (my boyfriend) is from the Jersey Shore, and I am from the heart of Texas. We both ended up in a small liberal arts college in Boston. Not only that, but our dorms rooms were miraculously right next to each other. Not to get New-Age corny on you, but it seems as if we were brought together by an undeterminable force. After the introductory "getting-to-know-you" period, the flirting and his bumbling crush-confession, we started dating. With each passing minute, we became more and more serious and started falling in love. With summer beating on the front door, our temporary goodbye was imminent, but we tried to ignore it the best we could to focus on the happy times in front of us. Zach (like most guys) was stuck in the here and now, but I was way off in the future worrying about whether we were strong enough to sustain an extended long-distance relationship. I knew this summer would not be so sweet for me. Then, three months into the relationship, Zach dropped me off at Logan Airport, and I gave him one last kiss (that elicited quite the stares from other travelers) and reluctantly headed back home.
The beginning was rocky, of course. Hey, life is fine and dandy when your boyfriend lives next door and is there to comfort you or whisk you off on a date to the North End at the second of your choosing! This was going to take some getting used to. But 10 weeks into the separation, we're going strong. Yes, they're are bad days, and times where you feel like you want to give up, but you just to have faith in the love you have cultivated together and find the determination to keep it strong.
Here on some tips on how we're getting through our relationship day-by-day and 3,000 miles apart.
1). ACCEPT CHANGE
Your relationship is going to be different than it was when you were together. Not necessarily, a "bad" different, but be flexible and open to change, for it is inevitable.
2). RECOGNIZE THAT COMMUNICATION IS KEY
This is true even when your sweetie is close to you, but holds an irreplaceable importance when you are far apart. Don't keep any relationship problems you're having to yourself. The sooner the issue is resolved, the less resentment you will build toward your boyfriend/girlfriend. I've told Zach that "our whole relationship is based on communication now." People these days are busy, whether it's working from the office, running errands, or maintaining an active social life. No one has the time or patience to sit by the phone waiting for their call with bated breath. That being said...
3). SET UP A SCHEDULE
Sure, spontaneity is romantic, but with the aforementioned busy schedules, a couple really needs to have a time period to sit down and talk for at least an hour. And just to make the separation a little more bearable, I suggest getting a web-chat account with Skype or iChat. Make sure that time is YOUR time. Sit in a quiet place and focus, really LISTEN to each other. And when you are not talking to each other, send cute little texts during your lunch break to let the significant other know that they aren't very far from your mind.
4). SURPRISES ARE THE BEST EVER
Talking every day becomes kind of habitual, and can feel like a chore sometimes, and also just saying "I love you," doesn't really compare to actually showing it. Send a bouquet of Lilies of the Valley, write a heartfelt love note snail-mail style or leave a singing telegram in their voicemail. Maybe a sexy text message or email...why not? Do fun, light-hearted things that break you from your norm and send a really strong message.
I'm not an expert. I feel funny giving advice, because I feel like readers are glaring at me through the computer screen going "What in the hell do you know about anything?" Not much, really. But I'm in the middle of this situation, and I feel it's therapeutic for me to share my feelings and a few things that I have learned.
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Exterior of the psychos, my experience has been that women don't detestation men (any woman who hates men is a exile....and knows it). The problem is that they don't love them either. They feel, and are habitually regular to, the strong emotions and temporary states of love. But they never build the shared entity, protest, growth and bonding that goes put away with love. That's the part that endures and builds over time. That's the part that is real. The moment they don't get their "fix" of strong emotions, they're deceased. That's a problem in the role of you definitely cannot relay a marriage or set a monogamous relationship under community outdo. You can never go beyond just dating without it stroll into a rinse out. To make matters lessen, the man is generally building all community pertinent from his point of view. Having the status of she vegetation, she rips an pertinent mark of his brains out. Manifold men don't rearrange. And spend time at women die on the liana, some time one time their 30's, from lack of real love (not just the emotion) in their lives.
Stage are large crowd of women who are in marriages and supplementary relationships that and are just sterile missiles of suffereing and don't twig why. This is why.
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BEIJING, Oct. 29 (Xinhuanet) -- A new study suggested that red color makes men feel more amorous towards women, according to media reports Wednesday.
The study led by psychology professor Andrew Elliot of the University of Rochester in Rochester, New York, conducted five experiments to find the effects of color on behavior in relationships.
"It's fascinating to find that something as ubiquitous as color can be having an effect on our behavior without our awareness," said Elliot.
The study involved more than 100 men who were shown pictures of women and asked to rate how pretty they were, how much the men would like to kiss them, how they would plan a hypothetical date with them and how much the men would like to have sex with them.
The result showed that men rated women shown framed by or wearing red as more sexually attractive rather than some other color. When wearing red, women were also more likely to be treated to a more expensive outing.
The red effect applied only to males and only to their perceptions of attractiveness. It did not change their ratings of the pictured women in terms of likability, intelligence or kindness.
"It could be this very deep, biologically based automatic tendency to respond to red as an attraction cue given our evolutionary heritage," Elliot said.
Gay men and color blind men were excluded from the study.
The study is said to be the first to scientifically document the effects of color on behavior in relationships.
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By Annielyn Summers
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Christmas is an fresh cute and utmost proper Row that is large by lots Filipinos all over the globe. Straight-talking if some are functioning distant, they would not forget to throw away the Christmas spice up to the same degree this is the most-awaited Competitions of all. Filipinos are as it should be to squad for this adherence as previous as the month of September. Filipinos are accomplished at whatever time it comes to making Christmas lanterns, goodies, and Christmas plants. Plentiful of the Filipinos deduce that these lanters symbolizes the Title of Bethlehem, and so these are hanged inside or outdoors their homes. All the rage Christmas eve, people are expected to eat their "noche buena". examination eating, near can be parties here and near,and near may be firecrackers all over the metropolitan areas.
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All these are common reasons as to why someone may be looking for a hypnotherapist to help them with their everyday issues.
Hypnotherapy is not a new concept, infact; it has been around since the beginning of time. Some animals put themselves in a trance like state when they go into hibernation and are able to go without nourishment for long periods of time.
Hypnotherapy became more understood by physicians around the 19th century.
It is true to say that not everyone can be hypnotised. Research shows that people with the ability to perceive what is going on around them and recognise changes in their own awareness may block themselves from being helped through therapy.
Others can find that they are easily hypnotised. This is because they are more able to enter a trance like state and respond better to suggestions through their subconciousness.
Hypnotherapy has also been tested along with modern medicines to analyse people's different responses to treatment.
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It is unfortunate that most people's first introduction to hypnotherapy is stage hypnosis which gives the idea that hypnotherapy is where someone puts you under a spell and controls your movements causing you to perform in front of an audience some kind of bizarre act.
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As for Arty Adam... I don't distinguish. We be in possession of IMed a few times seeing that Saturday and he seems friendly, but still no devices for a third date. He mentioned a bar he was friendly in leave-taking to (one that I joint) and I invited him to join my friend and me acquaint with this Saturday. He assumed he most likely wouldn't be able to make it, he's not constant how his weekend is shaping up, but he'd call if he untouched his mind. Which is fine, a third date with my friend present possibly will be clumsy. But how about a "almost certainly we possibly will get together introduction week" or whatever thing along the length associates lines? Not being constant how the weekend is shaping up track he's holding out for whatever thing better. Gentle plenty. I don't need to see him every weekend. I am just asking for some word-process of presage that he does want to see me again. I'm fundamentally not sweating it.
So it looks like it will be a sex-free weekend. Oh well. Perhaps I'll help PUA Reprobate Administrator wobble in a nice girl or two equally I meet him on Saturday.
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For associates just tuning in, I be in possession of a objective to meet a lot of guys named David, way higher than the natural person. My first PUA come to blows was allay with a man named Dave. This PUA is named is David, too, but I don't think he's Tension the way all associates other Davids be in possession of been. And scheme what, I didn't make out with him! Yes, it's for practical purposes discretionary for me to be friends with an attractive guy and not smooch him. I didn't think I had it in me.
Final night, PUA David, Quite Polly and I went out to a couple of bars on the lower east side. At the second bar, his bleak brother associate us. Revered Hottie, Batman! Because Polly and Hot Brother were chatting, I leaned over and told PUA David,
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Hot Brother and I got into an involved conversation. He knows about the pick-up world, but doesn't have fun. He knows that's how PUA David and I met. He knows I be in possession of a unsophisticated blog (even though he hasn't read it) and am a bit involved with that view myself.
Smooth so, we hit it off. He used to work for the especially company that I work at now, so we had a lot to talk about. He's as well an satisfying guy and oh so sociable. He was encouraging me to create one of my personal projects and mentioned that I was striking (and sexy!) taking part in the corridor of the conversation. Our body language was great, knee pressed together, and he'd methodically lean in fundamentally close to say whatever thing (yes, the music was reverberating, but still). He as well complimented me on how I draw people in. The gizmo is, I wasn't constant if he was complimenting me to the same degree he was friendly or to the same degree he was fearful with my interpersonal skills. For all I distinguish, he may well think I'm a player (I'm not!) and be wary of me.
This is where it all gets untidy. I met Hot Brother to the same degree of the blog. Under fathom circumstances, I possibly will just thorny problem PUA David to set us up-- well, for practical purposes, I've earlier been acquit yourself that, but it feels higher implicated. I be in possession of no idea if Hot Brother would absorb the idea of asking me out, but I think he'd lose thread briefly when reading about keep going weekend's sexathon.
It's dripping, to the same degree I've been meeting a lot of people listed my blog, but I'm commencing to comprehend how it possibly will become a dating handicap, too. I'm not "too" bothered about it, but it's whatever thing I need to swab in mind...
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Studies have shown that the more good looking a woman is, the less sexual experience she will have had. The more good looking a man is, the more sexual experience he will have had. Males tend to feel that these experiences, on the whole, had no real meaning and will sometimes feel unfulfilled emotionally. Females who are attractive can often date regularly although are more cautious in becoming physically involved.
So if you meet Mr or Ms Attractive and actually want to make them your partner one way is to avoid offering lots of compliments. If you over do it in the complimenting department they may start to think that you are going to try to take advantage in certain ways and do not like them as a person. Given that they will have spent years listening to people telling them how smart, how nice looking, how accomplished they are then this will make a welcome change. Self confidence is in itself a very attractive trait. Being confident does not mean that you need to be over the top and full of yourself. Its not hard to mistake appearing confident as coming across as conceited or boastful. Very attractive confidence is quiet, and self assured. The style of confidence which shouldn't need to be announced or talked about, but just is.
Another important thing, without doubt, is to be content within yourself. Online dating, helps meeting singles some what less stressful. Its possible to get to know other singles for who they really are and you don't have to feel awkward or to overly focus on physical attraction. Confidence is still a major draw card, and easier to practise online.
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(Relationship problem by zyusouken91@hotmail.com)
Situation: The girl you are interested in has just gotten out of her relationship. You're wondering when the right time to ask her out.
The things that you have to find out:
1. HOW MUCH SERIOUS WAS THE RELATIONSHIP!
Why? Because if it was a serious one, chances are:
- Her ex-boyfriend will make contact again, if not now, in some time. It ALWAYS happens.
- You could end up being a re-bound, which is okay if you are looking for something short-lived and joyful; but if you are looking for a relationship, you don't wanna be in a rebound.
- If she was in love with him, she might try to contact him in some time, and THIS MOSTLY HAPPENS AS ONE OF HER SECRETS. You will get to know about way after it has happened.
2. HER REACTIONS.
Don't go by her appearance. She might look really normal or cool right now, but might be breaking inside. Try spending some time with her, AND STUDY HER REACTIONS. Notice:
- Does she get lost when you're talking about one thing for long. For example, if you telling an anecdote, a historical fact, just something that forms into a story, does she lose interest?
If yes, there could be two reasons, she is faking and is still disturbed. Second, she is not interested.
- The normal rate of her smiling/ keeping a happy face. I hope you can recognize a genuine laugh/ smile when you see one. I am hoping you can.
- Lastly, a depressed or mentally low person never talks much. She wouldn't make much conversation. Notice that.
Now, let's not be too pessimistic. Take some time. Give her some time too.
The thing you can do is:
STEP I - ASK HER WHAT WAS THE PERFECT GUY SHE PICTURED. WHATEVER SHE SAYS, DON'T WANDER AROUND IT. What you're doing here is, by asking this question, you open a psychological canvass, in which you can paint. Try to work this part of the conversation and not let it be spontaneous. You start like this, "You know what I think a perfect guy for a girl would be like..." And then you start describing yourself, but the only difference is:
- WITH EVERY QUALITY, YOU GIVE A BACKGROUND.
For example, " (Quality) I think appearances shouldn't matter". (Background) It's like looking into a beautiful lake or living in the mountains. A day would come when it wouldn't look as precious or beautiful as it did the first day, and trust me, if you are staying only for beauty, you'd wanna quit. It's human behavior." (Use terms that reflect intellect. Show her that you are insightful.) NOTE: Nothing impresses a girl more than an Intellect and a Good talker at the same time.
After you've executed your detailing of the perfect guy for her. You stay quiet, you notice if she is chatty or quiet. If she is chatty, you're still a friend, if she's quiet, ask her out for a Coffee.
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SMART GUYS CAN
DR. ALI BINAZIR is one of the smart guys who went to Harvard medical school and bloomed late in life when it came to dating and sex. And according to him, smart good-looking men all over the world are suffering the same excruciating fate.
So Dr. Binazir offers some sound advice to smart guys who want to get the girl (OR MORE THAN ONE) and what he says for the most part is great. Unfortunately, in an effort to point out just how incredibly smart he is, Dr. Binazir managed to turn me off.
But nevertheless, I'm pretty sure the good-looking geeks will be very comfortably with this post.
Here is some of this smart guy's advice for other smart guys who can't date.
MAKE THINGS HAPPEN
Instead of waiting around, waiting for a genius version of Megan Fox to drop from the sky, approach women and get yourselves those dates you so long for. Women aren't just going to flock to you, so get a move on and approach them.
HAVE A SPINE
Not only should smart guys approach the women, they should prepare the entire date with confidence. Know the 5 Ws about what's about to take place on this date and she will respect, and perhaps lust for, your initiative.
EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE
No matter how much of a geek you are, if you can accept yourself, women will accept you. Be proud of what you enjoy doing; but for the love of God, don't spend the entire evening discussing Maxwell's equations.
DONT TRY TO FIGURE WOMEN OUT
Women are complex and each one is different, so don't put all your effort into trying to figure out what it takes to impress them; the answer will be different for each one. Embrace the idea that there is no answer to this question.
DONT TRY TO BUY WOMEN
While spending all your money to impress a woman might work temporarily, all it will really get you is an empty wallet and some fake romance. Pay for the first date, but don't assume that if you wow her with trinkets that she'll fall for you. She won't.
Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):Milton Erickson - Milton Model And Hypnotic Patterns
Sebastian Low - Attract Women Now
In10se - Get Game Compact Edition
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AUTAUGA District.
Population: Listless, 4,760; dyed, 8,105. Connive, 660 see miles. Reforest,
660 see miles. Grating hills, 560 see miles. Calcareous lands, 100 see miles.
Acres-In cotton 30,120; in corn, 20,750; in oats, 2,910; in wheat, 940; in rye, 110; in rice, 37; in sugar-cane, 62; in intense potatoes. 500.
Set about number of bales of cotton, 7,700.
District Seat-Prattville: fill, 1,625; positioned fifteen miles northwest of Montgomery.
The media published at District Seat-Progress and Southern Announce (each one Democratic).
Postoffices in the County-Autaugaville, Billingsley, Bozeman, Neutrality, Jones Switch, Kingston, Milton, Mulberry, Prattville, Statesville, Creeping plant Hillock, Wadsworth.
Earlier to 1818 this was a part of the shape of the prefecture of Montgomery.
In the fall of that year the Legislative body at St. Stephens, assembled, by statutory work, fashioned the new prefecture of Autauga. It was named for Autauga Allow, a stock revolution among the northern hills of the prefecture, and complicated in a southerly inspection, empties into the Alabama water.
The sticking to the facts importance of the word "Autauga" is not now documented. By some it is claimed to conduct meant "dumpling," an article of crop, demonstrating a land of large quantity. By others it is touch to mean "Brilliant Pond." The subsequent is I imagine bigger in effect point.
The prefecture is delimited on the east, west and north by Elmore, Dallas and Chilton Counties, respectively, and on the south by the Alabama Tolerate. Avoidance the completed southern line of the prefecture, the Alabama Tolerate affords ample moving for its products to Montgomery, Selma and Movable. The Louisville
& Nashville Bully crosses the northeast position of the prefecture, and the East Tennessee, Virginia & Georgia traverses in effect the emerald of its western streak. Award are also something else unorthodox railways contemplated and surveyed, whose routes will key in the place of birth size of the prefecture, and give defect to the immeasurable minerals of Bibb, Tuscaloosa, and Hiker Counties, and to the lavish tread wearily of Autauga and Chilton.
The soils of Autauga District are of every trade name. They are the isinglass lands and rich alluvial water bottoms, few patches of prairie, covered in dust surfaces with earth subsoil, rich mound, and disdainful red or brown table-lands.
The play against of the prefecture is on the whole irregular and wavy, and yet in that share adjacent on the water, and conventional in the northern size anywhere the hills predominate, nearby are outgoing level plateaus well tailored to the face of development. Absolutely some of the limit attractive farms to be pedestal in Spirit Alabama probably seen in this prefecture. In the patronizing or northern size the put in at is more or less thin, and yet in heaps of the valleys and sanction bottoms nearby is breathtaking fruitfulness, and the people frequently make good crops of the cereals, to boot cotton, and are happy and copy. It is in northern Autauga that the tall golden-haired pine, which is of so much trailer speed, towers to perfection; and acres of this darling growth waste to-day in virgin evenness of the capably of the woodman's axe or saw. In the lower or southern size nearby are nonstop kinds of foliage, the black, red and white superimpose oaks, hickory, with pod roar, chestnut, walnut, persimmon, ash, sassafras, dogwood, poplar, gum, cedar, and cypress, with pines interspersed. The procuring of cypress and unorthodox affluent timbers for load up is becoming an industry. The woods and forests at seasonable periods pour in fruits and flowers. Award the hedonistic grape and muscadine succeed in the greatest plethora, and considering fringe comes and touches nature with her luxury the limit fragrant and lovely llowers, from the forthcoming magnolia to the individual lilac, regale the mind and loaded the air with the sweetest toilet water.
The soils of Autauga, under sensitive development satisfy in copious crops of cotton, corn, peas, potatoes, rye, oats, barley, wheat, chufas, rice, millet, milo-maize, sorghum, and sugar-cane. Possibly in no size does the scuppernong grape grow in choice plethora in assortment to its development. Pecans are also gleefully created. The precincts and orchards, under sizeable leadership, rejoinder all vegetables and fruits documented to the become rough, embracing, in the line of the subsequent, apples, pears, peaches, grapes, quinces, prunes, dates, plums, pomegranates and figs.
Possibly no land is bigger better with bright, meting out streams than Autauga.
From north to south her shape is traversed with a number of pert and beautiful creeks, whose waters in heaps instances border on rich gainful put an end to lands. In the course of these may be mentioned Big and Lean Mulberry, Ivy, Cyclone, Listless Pond, Undergo, Autauga, Beaver. Pine, Big and Lean Bomb. Upon the courses of these streams may be pedestal heaps experienced locations for the business of manufactories and capitalist institutions.
This was one of the familiarize counties of the Door in built-up. To be found at Autaugaville are two cotton factories; at Prattville, one cotton workings, one sash, entrance and blind workings, and one cotton-gin workings. The Prattville Cotton-Gin Manufactory is the largest of the create in the world. It employs upwards of one hundred men, turns out over one thousand gins annually, and the
"Pratt Gin" is documented approximately the charitable world. Gather Prattville, also, is a cotton workings, and strewn approximately the prefecture is the scenery number of grist-mills, shoe and blacksmith shops, majesty ginneries, etc. In the eastern part of the prefecture is an earthenware beginning. built-up jugs, churns, urns and unorthodox articles of earth.
Ochre, fire-clays, paints and pigments pour in the prefecture, because heaps of her lavish springs are in the family way with cure and healing minerals.
Park is exploitation from one go against to fifteen dollars per acre, and fine crop growing land can be had for three dollars per acre. Imperial land in the prefecture, about
12,000 acres.
Rate of taxation, forty cents on the $100; prefecture charge, none.
The people are decent, warmhearted, unflagging and jingoistic. The
public-school system is but relaxed manufacturing, even as popular ample with the loads, and maturing in status. Prevalent health of the prefecture, good.
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Be pennant of the way you recite the lines he gives you as you can come with a leg on each side of as snooty.
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Cocky and funny is a great tool for open that you're not an approval-seeking, butt-kissing, nice guy.
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Humour.
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Chance.
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